SAMPLE AGENDA
STUDENT AGENDA
GO RMR: Attendee welcome and introduction
KNOWLEDGE: Essential definitions, policies, and laws
Topics:
○ Definitions of sexual misconduct, sexual harassment, sexual assault, rape, and sexual exploitation
○ In-person vs. technology-related sexual harassment
○ Age of consent
○ Effective consent vs. affirmative consent
○ Asking for consent, giving consent, and saying “No”
○ Capacity: intoxication vs. incapacitation
ATTITUDE: Where do you stand?
Topics:
○ Rape myths and victim blaming
○ Bias based on gender, sexuality, religion, age, economic status, race, and more
○ Prior consent vs. future consent
○ Unhealthy relationships vs. abusive relationships
○ Personal attitudes vs. community standards
BEHAVIOR: It’s not what you say; it’s what you do that counts.
Topics:
○ Coercion vs. seduction
○ Responding to sexting
○ “No means no” vs. “yes means yes”
○ Initiating contact respectfully
○ Paying attention to others’ boundaries
UPSTANDER: Will you step in?
Topics:
○ What motivates people to intervene
○ What hinders people from intervening
○ The Bystander Effect
○ How to be an upstander
○ What to notice as harmful
○ Culture of disrespect vs. respect
RMR CONCLUSION: Call to action and next steps
FACULTY & STUDENT LEADER AGENDA
COMPREHENSION: Teach the KABU of RMR
○ Explain knowledge, attitudes, behaviors, and upstander skills
○ Ensure you understand the KABU from Level 1
○ Internalize terms and important concepts for sexual misconduct
○ Master essential sexual assault facts and statistics
FACILITATION: Gain competency to lead training
○ Understand how to maintain focus on RMR learning outcomes
○ Establishing ground rules
○ Strategies and best practices to support diverse populations and experiences
INCLUSIVITY: Use a survivor-sensitive approach
○ Prejudice, discrimination, and bias
○ Survivor experiences and inclusivity
○ Rethinking assumptions about privilege or access
○ Responding to reports of sexual misconduct
INTERACTIVITY: Case study discussions
○ Learning to guide, facilitate, and discuss RMR interactive exercises
○ Preparation with at least three examples for each exercise
○ Troubleshooting logistics when technology fails
○ Methods to ask questions and respond to participant answers
Go RMR. Make Respect the Standard, not the Exception.